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The Well: God ‘s Inclusive Love

The Well: God ‘s Inclusive Love 150 150 Tim Williams

By Margarita Galindo

One Saturday afternoon my granddaughter, Regina, arrived with her Catechism for the First Communion, to study for the following week. I asked her if she liked learning about God. She answered me in a way that surprised me. She said that learning about the Catechism and about God are part of her life. I immediately recalled the passage In Luke 18:15-17, where Jesus calls the disciples to allow children to approach Him, he explains “for it is to such as these that the kingdom of God belongs”. This passage highlights Jesus’s inclusive love for all, especially those considered insignificant by society, and teaches that one must approach God’s kingdom with a childlike spirit of trust and openness.

Further reflection on her answer, led me to write about the importance of our Vincentian Formation.

We cannot go through life without a clear awareness of the importance that we have to prepare ourselves for what we are doing, and in our case, our Vincentian life. Within the Society of St. Vincent de Paul in the United States, and surely also in the rest of the world, there is a reality: the need for Formation; an integral formation that promotes spirituality and action, as Regina told me; not as separate realities, but complementary, since Formation and Spirituality must be lived in action every day in our lives and expressed in our attentiveness to each other and to those living in poverty whom we serve.

On-going formation is a constant process of transformative learning throughout life, focused on updating knowledge and improving knowledge, skills and attitudes, both in the personal (human, intellectual, emotional), spiritual (virtues, morals, character) and social (ministerial and pastoral) spheres. On-going formation seeks to help Vincentians adapt to the constant changes of the modern world, offering opportunities for development through various activities such as courses, workshops, retreats, certifications, trainings and formal and informal learning. Training, on the other hand, consists of a series of planned activities (or trainings), based on the needs of the Conferences, which are oriented towards a change in the knowledge, skills and aptitudes of Vincentians that allow them to develop their activities effectively within their areas of work. either in the Conference or in Special Works.

Reflect: Are we open to learning, to growing and to allowing the  transformative grace of the Holy Spirit to deepen our Vincentian Spirituality?

As Vincentians, is our commitment to on-going formation reflected in our  home visits and the attentiveness to our neighbors in need?

The Well: Our Encounter with the Holy Spirit

The Well: Our Encounter with the Holy Spirit 150 150 Tim Williams

By Aldo Barletta, National Vice-President of Vincentian Spiritual Growth and Enrichment

Even after the National Assembly, I still feel like I’m floating in the air. For me, last year, Mary Our Blessed Mother was the protagonist, and this year, it was the Holy Spirit.

The anointing of the Paraclete we did not have to wait, it was in the sessions and workshops, especially on: 1) Wednesday, the day dedicated to Formation [where there was confirmed testimony of God’s message], 2) the workshop of “Home Visits – Part 1: Encounter with the Holy Spirit”, 3) before the Blessed Sacrament exposed every day at lunchtime, and 4) in the celebrations of the Eucharist, and by praying the Most Holy Rosary, especially with the Morning Prayer.

We know that, in our neighbors in need, we encounter the Crucified Christ, and we always long to be able to reflect God’s love in our encounter with our brothers and sisters. But we must recognize that to be able to see the face of Christ, and for us to be able to reflect on His face, we can only do so by being enlightened and inspired by the Holy Spirit. For this, it is essential, first of all to promote intimate encounters with God as often as possible. We will not be able to achieve those moments, if we allow ourselves to be caught up in the noise and high speed of this earthly world. More and more often, we must pause and raise our gaze to the sky.

To better honor our Vincentian heritage, we must rest on the promise of the Father and the Son, and the Holy Spirit, our advocate, source of light, power, grace, anointing, gifts, and charisms. We can spend our lives trying to understand how great He is, but it’s best for us to call on Him, try to learn how to better recognize Him, and surrender ourselves to Him. The Holy Spirit will fill us with what we need to better love, adore, serve God, our brothers and sisters in need, and members of our beloved Society.

The Well: Who me? Give a retreat? How?

The Well: Who me? Give a retreat? How? 150 150 Tim Williams

If you are a Formator or Spiritual Advisor, giving retreats should be one of the regular services you offer for your members – but if you’ve never done that before, where do you start?

Formation Resources

On the Formation Resources page, you’ll find a button for Retreats. There, you will see a variety of resources to get you started, including complete materials you can use to prepare and facilitate your own retreat. One great example. under “Other Retreats” is one titles “Finding Christ in the Moment”. When you download this PowerPoint, you will find it includes links to get videos you can embed (and instructions on how to do so).

This retreat is based on a talk given by Fr. Dennis Holtzschneider at our 2021 National Assembly, and it include notes and prompts for you to guide the conversations and sharing in your own retreat.

Recorded Retreats

There are several recorded retreats that you can find on the Retreats and Reflections video library. These are typically longer videos (about an hour) that you can play, with several pauses to discuss and share what you’ve seen. These include The Faces of Christ, Turn Everything to Love, as well as talks such as Laying Down Your Life for a Friend. These longer form videos can save you a lot of preparation time in planning your own retreat.

Prayers for the Retreat

A retreat should be a prayer-filled time! If you are not comfortable writing your own prayers, start by looking through the different prayers and meditations available here for download, or purchase a printed copy of 500 Little Prayers for Vincentians, or 500 More Little Prayers for Vincentians.

Music for the Retreat

Music adds a special dimension to our sharing in a retreat. Ray Sickinger’s many Vincentian songs are especially appropriate for a Vincentian retreat. You will find many of them on the Ozanam Orientation Formator’s flash drive, and a CD is also available.

Training and Instruction

Now that we’ve mentioned planning a retreat, would it be nice if there were a video on How to Plan a Spiritual Retreat? You’re in luck – there is!

The Well: Formation and Spirituality Video Library

The Well: Formation and Spirituality Video Library 150 150 Tim Williams

The Society has published many books and documents for purchase or download, but there are also many videos available for personal enrichment, or to share at Conference or Council Meetings.

Spirituality and Formation Channel

On the Society’s Vimeo pages, there is a special channel for videos related to Spirituality and Formation. There are almost fifty videos there, and they are well worth reviewing to find videos of special interest to you or your Conference. We’ll highlight just a few of them below.

Pro-Tip: if you don’t have a reliable Wi-Fi connection in your meeting room, you can download any of these videos onto your computer in advance. On the screen below the video you’ve chosen, look for the download icon (indicated here with a red arrow) and click it to download. 

Fred Talks

Fred Talk videos are only three to five minutes long, and each covers a single topic, such a one of the Vincentian Virtues. They make a nice change of pace for reflections at your Conference meetings, by watching them together and then discussing. You’ll notice throughout the videos there are text pop-ups indicating reference sources for the materials discussed. These are for members who may wish to take a deeper dive on their own.

Retreats

There are several recorded retreats. These are typically longer videos (about an hour) that you can play, with several pauses to discuss and share what you’ve seen. These include The Faces of Christ, Turn Everything to Love, as well as talks such as Laying Down Your Life for a Friend. These longer form videos can save you a lot of preparation time in planning your own retreat. Be sure to think through prayers for the group to say together, prompting questions to help facilitate sharing, and other parts of the retreat, such as Mass, snacks, or meals.

Training and Instruction

Now that we’ve mentioned planning a retreat, would it be nice if there were a video on How to Plan a Spiritual Retreat? You’re in luck – there is! There are also videos on Formation Planning, and the Spirituality of Vincent and Frédéric.

There is a long list of videos to choose from on our channel, and more will continue to be added. Be sure to bookmark the page and check back often. Those videos are for you and for your Conferences and Councils!

The Well: Refresh – Renew – Refuel – Reflect

The Well: Refresh – Renew – Refuel – Reflect 150 150 Tim Williams

By Marge McGinley, National Vincentian Formation Committee Chair

Some people say that summer slows down a little but really summer offers us different choices, especially if Our Lord has led us to work in Formation. Most of our workshops where we spend time teaching and hopefully inspiring our Vincentians to grow in holiness as they minister to our neighbors in need, are conducted during the school year. As Conference members we continue to care for our neighbors in need but also take those opportunities to spend time with family and friends and hopefully take a little time off or away.

Instead of teaching the Ozanam Orientation on a Saturday, perhaps you’ve been invited to a picnic. Instead of running a webinar during a weekday evening, maybe you’re sitting by a pool, lake or ocean. Just the thoughts are refreshing. When we have time to pause our activities, the Holy Spirit can lead us where He needs us most. Our minds can clear, and creativity can heighten. Taking time for ourselves also helps prevent compassion fatigue therefore, never even approaching burnout.

Taking good care of ourselves allows us to do God’s work longer in our lives. When we are compassionate people, every situation and every person whom we encounter, impacts us. That can take a toll over time. So, let’s look a little deeper into all the “re-“words in the title of this article.

Bl. Frédéric teaches us that “the poor we see with the eyes of the flesh; they are there and we can put finger and hand in their wounds and the scars of the crown of thorns are visible on their foreheads…and we should fall at their feet and say with the Apostle, Tu est Dominus et Deus meus. You are our masters, and we will be your servants. You are for us the sacred images of that God whom we do not see, and not knowing how to love Him otherwise shall we not love Him in your persons?”

What can we do to stay capable to “share more love” with God’s people?

We often saw Jesus take time with His disciples to pray, but we also witness Him enjoying their company along with so many others. The wedding feast of Cana, the fish fry gatherings on the beach, the dinners at friends’ and sinners’ homes. Jesus was available and willing to spend time in nourishment and fun. As we gather as Vincentians, we are building friendships which will provide support and keep us well to better serve our neighbors in need. As we gather with family and friends this summer, take time to soak in their love and care for you, so you may share it with others.

Take steps to avoid compassion fatigue: Live within your mission statement, de-brief with other Vincentians, Refill and refuel in healthy ways, Leave your superman/woman cape in the closet. As Vincentians, and servant leaders we must find ways to pour ourselves out without wearing ourselves out and be able to teach others the same. St. Paul tells us in Phil 4:11-13, “I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

While we are relaxing and refreshing, perhaps we might dream about where the Holy Spirit might be leading us in next year’s formation in our Conferences and Councils, always aware of Saint Vincent’s guidance:

“Since you know the means of getting better, in the name of God, make use of them. Do not take on anything beyond your strength, do not be anxious, do not take things too much to heart, go gently, do not work too long or too hard.”

The Well: Learning from Christ How to Find Him in the Moment of Encounter

The Well: Learning from Christ How to Find Him in the Moment of Encounter 1600 1200 Tim Williams

By Rita St. Pierre, National Vincentian Spirituality Committee Chair

As Vincentians, we often are reminded that our charism is “finding the face of Christ in the poor.” But how do we understand the term “charism” and how do we live it? The word “charism” is from the Greek and means “favor” or “free gift.” Charisms are graces of the Holy Spirit.

This grace of seeing the face of Christ in the poor and being Christ for those we visit is the core of our vocation. During every encounter, regardless of the location, Christ within us encounters Christ in our neighbor in need. Recognizing, accepting and living that grace requires reflecting on how this can be accomplished. Let us learn from Christ Himself by reflecting on two of His encounters.

The woman who had hemorrhaged for many years simply touched his cloak, with faith that she would be healed (Mk 5:25-34). Jesus asked who touched Him, then waited for her to come forward and present herself. He looked at her with love, healed her and sent her off saying “go in peace.” Many times, our friends come to us reluctantly for assistance without fully sharing the details or extent of their needs. Some are anxious or, like this woman, some are embarrassed. This encounter teaches us to be patient, compassionate, respectful and to wait calmly for God’s son/daughter to share. Then hopefully we leave them with peace in their hearts.

Now let’s examine the encounter between Jesus and the woman accused of adultery. Jesus waited until the crowd left after he challenged them. With a calm and patient presence, Jesus allowed for a confidential, calm interaction with the woman, thereby restoring her dignity. Again, He certainly looked at her, spoke with her and not at her, without judgment but with respect, encouragement and hope. Can we honestly say that we emulate this encounter? Our encounters require only one response: our kind presence and profound listening. Financial or other assistance will flow from there.

When we need to refresh and renew ourselves as we serve, prayer is a priority. From the beginning of His ministry, Jesus often went off alone to pray. “And in the morning, a great while before day, He rose and went out to a lonely place, and there He prayed.” (Mk 1:35). We read that He frequently went up to the mountain to pray. (Mk 6:46; Lk 6:12; Lk 9:28).

Making time for frequent prayer, sitting in silence with the Holy Spirit, will always give us the graces to see Christ in our neighbors, Because of our encounters with Christ in prayer, the neighbors we visit will see Christ in us. Let us remember that Elijah waited on the mountain to hear from God. Elijah heard Him only “in the sound of sheer silence”. (1 Kings 19:11-13). To refresh and renew, to deepen our relationship with the Lord, where is our mountain, and can we wait patiently to hear Him in the sound of silence?

The First Spiritual Advisor: A Role Model for the Rest of Us

The First Spiritual Advisor: A Role Model for the Rest of Us 1098 1116 Tim Williams

By Gail Rowe, National Vincentian Spirituality Committee

Spiritual Advisors really don’t need to give advice. Walking alongside other Vincentians as we traverse the rutted, uneven, sometimes jarring path to God, is what we do. We need some very particular virtues to assist our colleagues in our mission of service. Perhaps some insights from the very first Spiritual Advisor may benefit us.

As we know, Emmanuel Bailly was the first President of the Society. Mr. Bailly was also considered the first spiritual advisor, although the title had not yet been created.

Mr. Bailly was a newspaper owner who (1) allowed the new Society members to meet on his property. In addition to his (2) kind guidance, Mr. Bailly was a man before his time. Born Joseph-Emmanuel Bailly, his father-in-law asked him to take his bride’s maiden name so the family name would not be lost. With (3) deep respect and to (4) honor his father-in-law, he became Joseph-Emmanuel Bailly de Surcy.

Emmanuel exhibited virtues that are still relevant.

  1. He was generous …with material items as well as his time and talents
  2. He was a kind man. He gave his time to the founders. He listened. He guided.
  3. He respected all people, i.e. his in-laws, his friends, those he served
  4. He honored people. He demonstrated how to honor each other.

Emmanuel Bailly has also left us with a few reminders of how to be holy Vincentians relying on God. From his own words:

If visiting of the poor, well and regularly performed, we add, dear Brother, a true spirit of charity towards one another, then the future of our Society is assured, and God will heap His blessings upon it.”

Emmanuel Bailly’s words help us remember to be charitable not only to our friends in need, but to each other. Don’t you feel God’s blessings heaping and spilling on you?

Again from E. Bailly:

What gives strength and activity, what will bring everything into perfect harmony in our work is the sincere love of the poor of Jesus Christ and the brotherly union of all the members of the Society.”

Doesn’t this service for Jesus remind you that we all are so abundantly loved and cherished that it helps us to just get along? Remember, we are not alone. We have each other as sounding-boards, mentors and friends…AND…we have our ancestors to give us guidance. Peace to all of us.

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