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The Best Fundraisers Listen

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By Mike Flynn, Advancement Committee

Fund-raising involves asking someone for money, maybe a person in an organization. But it isn’t just about asking a question. It is about initiating a conversation. And a conversation is about listening as well as talking.

The best salespeople listen. It is in listening that you understand the other person’s perspectives on the world and your community.

Ask questions that prompt the other person’s knowledge about the need you are looking to fund. There might be knowledge that comes from the media, or it might be from someone or people that the person knows.

With that understanding, you can portray the needs of the community and how St. Vincent de Paul helps. And you can do it in a way that is more likely to be heard.
Some people are more likely to be persuaded by data. Others by personal stories. That is where your understanding of the person you are speaking with comes in. You will be able to tailor your evidence of the need based on that conversation.

For those who are more convinced by data, share the need in terms of the numbers of people St. Vincent de Paul has helped in your archdiocese, district council, or conference. It is usually best to report numbers on an annual basis – by type of help and dollar amounts.

For those more convinced by stories, think of a person you might have helped in a home visit. Tell how you felt approaching the home, entering the home and meeting the neighbor in need. Describe the home, including all who are living there. Tell you came to understand the need and how St. Vincent de Paul helped. And tell about the role prayer took in the visit.

Then ask for the contribution that based on your conversation is appropriate and aspirational. Ultimately, you are raising funds for St. Vincent de Paul, funds that will be used to help fill the needs of our neighbors in need.

 

5 Tips to Make Fundraising Less Intimidating

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“Fundraising is, first and foremost, a form of ministry. It is a way of announcing our vision and inviting other people into our mission.” -Henri Nouwen

They say that public speaking is one of our greatest human fears. But there’s something else that ranks right up there—asking for money. It’s ok. We can admit it. Asking for money isn’t exactly what we signed up for when we joined SVdP. Most of us are willing to do anything to support the mission—EXCEPT for fundraising.

But there’s something I read a long time ago when I first entered this work that changed my perspective, and it may change yours too. It’s priest, writer and theologian Henri Nouwen’s essay on the “Spirituality of Fundraising.” National Chief Advancement Officer Ryan Carney shared a link to that little essay in this column a few weeks ago, but I’m guessing that most of us missed it. So if you haven’t read it and would like a copy, please email me sclancy@svdpaz.org and I will email it to you.

Nouwen helped me realize that I was thinking about fundraising all wrong. He reminds us that fundraising isn’t about asking for money, it’s about fostering relationships and deepening our faith. It’s about welcoming others into our work not as a means to an end but as an end in and of itself. As Nouwen states: Fundraising is a very rich and beautiful activity. It is a confident, joyful, and hope-filled expression of ministry. In ministering to each other, each from the riches that he or she possesses, we work together for the full coming of God’s Kingdom.

So, how can we make fundraising less intimidating and more impactful?

1. Share Our Passion: Let’s start by sharing our passion for SVdP’s mission—why we got involved, what stories have touched us, and the differences we’ve seen firsthand. When others witness our enthusiasm, they’ll want to be part of it too.

2. Tell Stories: Stories are powerful. They connect us on a human level and show the concrete impact of our work. Sharing stories of individuals or families whose lives have been transformed through SVdP’s support remind us why our fundraising efforts and our work together matter.

3. Build Relationships: Fundraising is all about relationships. Take the time to connect with potential donors or supporters. Listen to their stories and perspectives. Show them how their contributions can make a meaningful difference in the lives of others. Invite them to be part of our mission.

4. Faith Over Fear: Yes, fundraising can at times seem intimidating. But this isn’t OUR work, this is GOD’S work. Our mission is worthy, and it calls us not only to serve others but also to invite others to serve alongside us. Let’s trust in the generosity of others and in God’s grace to guide us.

5. Celebrate with Gratitude: When we receive gifts to support our work, what a joy it is to express our gratitude—both to the donors who partnered with us and to God who makes all things possible. When we share the impact of the gifts that others have made, we give them an opportunity to share in our work and foster the sense of joy, connection, and belonging that make our work so rich and beautiful.

Let’s let our faith be bigger than our fear. Let’s invite others into our work with courage and conviction. Let’s remember that one of the best fundraisers was Vincent himself who connected those in need of help with those who could offer support on the common ground of God’s love. May each of us continue to carry on Vincent’s legacy…

 

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